A waiting room is designed to be a passive place of distraction, a place to whittle down the minutes (hours!) until you get where you really want to be. And sometimes life can feel like that.
But earth is not heaven’s waiting room; it is more like a dressing room.
Waiting with activity
Moments before a theatre production is about to begin, there is a flurry of activity in the dressing room as each person prepares for their appointed roles, complete with appropriate costumes, gestures, and ways of speaking.
Waiting in the Christian life is just as active and anticipatory. This is a time to prepare.
But what is all this preparation for? Like waiting for a director to start the show, we wait for King Jesus to return, kicking off the party of God’s kingdom.
The fulfillment of this promise will usher in an age of well-being, where everything that is broken will be made right. When Jesus was here the first time, he revealed his kingdom to be a place where the hungry are fed, the sick are healed, and the “other” is welcomed.
But we are not there yet. We are still in the dressing room, actively waiting and looking forward to the day when all will be restored.
We do this by demonstrating what such a kingdom would be like in the way we work, love, and live. Our activity arises not because we doubt our coming hope, but because we know it will come. We’re just getting ready.
Living on mission
Can I encourage you to be active in your waiting?
You have unique dreams and opportunities, as well as unique challenges and hardships—a chance to improvise a demonstration of the kingdom of God. Often this means serving your “audience”: what would it look like to offer deep well-being to those around you?
Delivering groceries to those in need?
Offering prayer to those who are anxious?
Writing a card to those who are lonely?
This is not a call to productivity; rather, this is about taking the opportunity to practise walking with Jesus now, even though some days we forget all of the stage directions.
As we rehearse in the dressing room of life, we will encounter disappointments when our efforts don’t turn out as expected. We may mess up our lines or our audience may reject the vision we are trying to portray. But our ultimate expectation—that Jesus will one day make all things right—is so grand that it is beyond derailment.
Waiting with stillness
Though preparation and work is valued in God’s kingdom, so is rest.
The Christian tradition doesn’t simply ask for a flurry of activity, but also encourages us to slow down and lean into the reality of our waiting. Through the centuries, Christians have developed practices of attentive stillness:
Holding to a Sabbath day of rest
Spending extended times in silence and/or solitude
Meditating slowly on Scripture
Because Christ the Director has already welcomed us into his drama, our inclusion in his kingdom is not threatened by our human limitations. Thus, in prayer and contemplation, we can slow down and notice that we are waiting for the real show to begin. We can be thankful for simply another breath as we relax into God’s presence, even as we anticipate seeing him face to face.
Funny enough, this ends up being a kind of preparation too. Just as actors have to study their characters to become like them, so we slow down and study Jesus.
Be still in prayer
Have you let yourself enter this rest? This attentive waiting? It can be uncomfortable to be silent with a Silent God. But until we learn this lesson, we will be unable to truly speak with a Speaking God.
How can you add some undistracted stillness into your day? Purposeful rhythms of fully setting aside technology is probably a good first step. A specific time for prayer each day, without the pressure of multitasking, is also a helpful practice. As you grow in your ability to be still, you'll become more able to offer the world the refreshment the you receive from these moments of quiet.
In some ways, this kind of attentive waiting is harder than purely active waiting. It is challenging to let go of not-yet things in order to embrace our wait.
“Waiting on God” can feel like a meaningless cliché, but I’ve experienced that when I sit in silence, waiting for God in the same way in which I would anticipate seeing a dear friend, I become aware that I’m actually waiting with God in the silent darkness of the not-yet.
In a way, the Director is already here, if only we would be bold enough to seek him out, actively and attentively.